Setbacks
Friday, December 1st, 2000 (continued).
From Jane:
For the last 10 days I have been alternating between 20mg and 15mg. Wednesday night I came home from work and after dinner got very dizzy. I absolutely panicked and took 20mg instead of the 15mg I should have taken. Felt better shortly thereafter. Now, I am really worried about being able to get off this damn drug. I went on it due to anxiety and dizziness. How will I ever get off it if this is a withdrawal symptom? I took 15mg last night and feel fine now.
My response:
I don’t mean to belittle what you’re going through, because I think I know what you’re going through, but so what? So you took 20mg instead of 15mg. Big whoop. When I began weaning by alternating, the same thing happened to me a few times — I had to take the higher dose instead of the lower one. Then I felt better and was ready to move on.
The best way to get through this crap is to play it by ear. Don’t lower the dosage until you’re ready to lower it — and you’re not going to feel ready precisely every 7 days. None of this crap runs on clockwork. I don’t think you should feel discouraged because you had to take a 20 instead of a 15. It’s not a setback. You may have to take the lower dose every 3rd day — who knows? You work it out as you go a long. I was winging it the whole time I was weaning, and now I’m off it completely and I’m never going back. It can be done.
As far as I can tell, there is nothing consistent about this process. Throughout my weaning, I had days where I felt great. They were rare, but they were there. Most of the time I felt like crap. Then I had my window of heightened vitality about a month ago where, at least sexually, I felt like I was a teenager again. That lasted for about 10 days or so. Then I was completely impotent. Oh joy oh bliss. About four days ago, I didn’t have a single brain zap; my eyes weren’t heavy, nothing — and my spirits immediately got better, despite still being impotent. Then two days ago I got hit with the brain zaps like I’d never had them before. It was as if my body was letting it all go with one final surge. (Just a theory.) But at the same time, the impotence disappeared. I don’t feel like a teenager again, but I’m back to normal, or at least getting there.
There’s no predicting how things are going to progress. It’s a roller coaster to say the least — and that’s one of the hardest things about it, that it’s such an up and down experience. But it does get better. Sometimes it’s such a slow process that it’s hard to tell if anything is happening. But in the long run at least, there’s progress. You might not notice it yet, but as you continue with the alternating, you’ll eventually see that you’re getting somewhere. Don’t let the inconsistencies and the slowness of the process discourage you.